So girls, why are we so mean? We go around and police bars, picking out all the girls that are "sluts." Ok sure, we can all admit we've probably done it. I know I am not without guilt. But the thing is, why do we think it's any of our business? That girl may have just gone through a wicked break up and wanted some time to have fun and flirt around.
Sluts can own it. Most of the time, they have the most confidence out of anyone in the crowd where they go. They know who they are and what they want and they own it. They rock being a slut. MTV's Girl Code defines a "Triple Threat" slut as being one that's showing cleavage, stomach and leg. But so what? If she wants to dress that way and make out with random guys, who is to say that's a bad thing? She's not harming you. Well, unless she starts going after your boyfriend. Then that's not ok.
But seriously, girls, we need to stop the slut shaming. Work with your friends to stop each other when you find yourself doing it. I know I could use a nudge to be nicer sometimes. We don't like guys calling us sluts so why are we calling each other sluts? Get out of other girls' businesses and live your own life. Don't want to be a slut? Don't.
Just don't get upset when guys don't take you seriously or try to move things along physically... Because dressing that way and getting intoxicated is just a recipe for disaster. There are so many 'sluts' in the city that get surprised when their outfit gets a reaction.
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